A Dose of Positivity

Hi there!

I’m currently struggling with what to actually post today. I have so many things in my head and I’ve made a promise to myself that I will be updating my blog on a regular basis and I will stick to real life stories rather than focusing on projects, ads and products alone.

As a Mom of a 7 month old baby, things rattle up a bit at home and a lot in my head. I am currently juggling my life between trying to be a better Mom to my own baby, trying to learn a new language, trying to enjoy my newly acquired love for knitting, trying to get myself into shape, trying to not mentally stress me the fact that I’m still not able to work here in Norway as I’m still not an official resident of the country, trying not to be emotionally shattered by the fact that it’s been a year now since the last time I saw my two boys in Malaysia and all the daily tasks that I’m trying to accomplish at home. Please tell me how to deal with all of this.

It’s too much isn’t it. I can easily panic and hyperventilate right now – I do sometimes but I’m getting better with my breathing techniques. I think. LOL

I know the best way to deal with all of this, according to all the books, google and articles that I’ve read is to take one step at a time. I am. But sometimes, I break down too. I actually don’t know where this story is going but one thing is for sure, I know I am not alone. I know there are a lot of Mums out there who are in the same situation, especially life with Covid-19 right now being such a huge pain in the ass. I know I am not alone and I know my situation is not the worse and I should just get myself together and be a support to everyone who are in the same place.

I may have a lot of negative things in my plate right now but I know if I focus on the positive side of life, it actually is a lot more – like I am healthy, I have food everyday, I have healthy children and they are getting proper education, books to read, food to eat, toys to play, a warm place and a roof on our head, an internet connection to reach out to family and friends all over the world and a lot more. (Wow, that was good!)

SO, For all ladies (or gents) who are currently overwhelmed by life right now, let’s talk, reach out to me or your friends and family. It is really overwhelming right now in so many ways but we will all prevail and will rise again. You are not alone – thinking about negative things will just make you think more negative events. It’s pretty awful but sometimes, I believe these things come our way to make us stronger, mentally and emotionally. In your own terms, let yourself rise again and start feeding positivity into your head and into your life. You are not alone. I am with you!

xoxo,Winlove

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